Today I had the worst walk with my dogs that I have ever had. It was a real ‘every dog owners nightmare’ situation and, to be honest, I should have seen it coming.
I took Kez and Ernie for a normal walk round the beach, starting at fields and then walking round along seafront. Started off a great walk, in fact there were no signs at all that anything bad was going to happen. While walking along the seafront Kez started munching on who knows what. I called her away… she ignored. I kept calling, frustration creeping in as she ignored me. Eventually she turned so I called her to me, but I was clearly frustrated with her. She avoided me and then went off entirely, starting her circling behaviour. I carried on walking, no point trying to get her back because I know her well enough now to know she wont come back unless I leave her be and let her do it in her own time.
Usually I can get her back eventually, but it has been getting progressively worse. A couple of weeks back she circled, I cant remember what the trigger was (I think it was also eating something), but she would not come near me. In the end I walked along an alley until Kez got close enough behind me I could at least do something. So I sat at the end of this alley, throwing treats gradually bringing them closer to me. This wasn’t working though, so then I asked for a down and surprisingly she went into down. This is the funny part. I then scooted along, a milicentimetre at a time on my bum getting closer to her. Eventually she realised I wasn’t angry with her and let me grab her. Lots of cuddles later, the rest of the walk had no problems whatsoever and it was like it never happened.
After that I kept her on the long line for a while, until I decided she was okay to be let off again. Yesterday we had a slight issue where we were training in a place she feels quite unsafe due to bad experiences there. I kept playfully grabbing her collar, something I do all the time and she usually is fine with it as long as I keep to a level shes comfortable with. She suddenly started showing signs she was uncomfortable; giving calming signals, avoiding my hand etc. And then, we did some heeling and she left focus so I walked away to get her back again and she started circling. I was able to quickly get her back by putting her in a quick instant down and then going to get her. But, I should have been more careful and noticed the signs earlier.
Today, she was having none of it. She would not come back at all. The closest I got was when I sat on the beach playing with Ernie and she came behind me. As soon as I put my hand out, not even to grab just to get her to sniff, she was off again. To make it worse my phone ran out of battery and so I couldnt even contact my parents telling them why I wasn’t home yet. Eventually, frustration got the better of me and I tried cornering her, driving her where she’d turn back to me and even full on chasing her. It literally was like I was the sheepdog and she was the sheep, only she was an extremely uncooperative sheep. She’s too smart, she outsmarted me on every try. Even just standing still, walking towards the road home or lying on the pebbles… she would not come near me.
The lucky part is that its a busy walking area, so there were lots of people about. A couple stopped to try and help me get her… with no luck. Others stopped too, it just got progressively worse. She barked at people going towards her, and as most of these had dogs there was no way she was going anywhere near them. Eventually, she forgot about me and started doing her own thing, running along the beach rolling about and basically walking herself. I was on the verge of leaving her and running home, my parents no doubt were worrying out of there mind where the hell I was. Then I decided that was out of the question, I couldn’t just leave her. Besides, she knows the route home, and there are a couple of main roads. Rather have parents worried than a dead/injured/stolen dog.
I then screamed her name and she turned and started heading my way. Still not coming near me though! So I started walking the route home, heading towards the road until I was literally on the edge of where the path leading to the beach meets the road. This is when things started getting really scary. She actually went around me and ended up on the road in front of me, by this time a woman had seen Kez and was asking if I needed help. I saw Kez then in the road with 2 cars stopping near her, and I literally thought that was it. The woman ran towards her and started trying to get her, telling the cars to slow down.
Soon, passersby, people in the houses… they all came out and helped. Cars were queing either side of Kez, and the ones that were coming past, Kez was then jumping up at the window to see if she knew the person inside. As soon as she realised she didnt she was off again. It was absolutely horrible. One of the passersby who stopped had a little girl, and the little girl then started crying because she was worried about Kez. Honestly, it was one of the worst experiences ive ever had.
With the help of all these people we drove Kez onto the front gardens (happened in an area of big houses). We cornered Kez into one of the front gardens and the woman living there came out with a box of biscuits. Kez, being the greedypants she is followed these biscuits right into the house. Door was closed, and Kez was grabbed. What a nightmare. As soon as she was back with me and realised that actually, everyone was friendly, she was wagging and jumping about -_-. Walking home, she was ahead with her tail up and happily playing with me as if nothing had ever occured. Came home to find my dad out looking for me and my mum screaming where the hell I was. I had phoned the home phone on the womans mobile with no answer. We later found my brother had unplugged it. How unlucky is that.
But, at the end of the day, I came home with her and she is safe and sound. We then went to obedience training tonight and she was perfect, even better than last week with no indications whatsoever that anything bad had happened. Despite it all, she is safe and she was very very lucky.
Now, we need to sort this behaviour out once and for all. I know I have made it increasingly worse by getting frustrated with her and not rewarding everytime she comes back after circling. As a result, she lacks a lot of trust in me. That has got to change. I want her to be completely confident with me and not feel so scared that she cant come near me. Kez could have easily been hit by a car today and injured or worse. If this happened again, I doubt we would be as lucky. This cannot happen again, it is as simple as that. We have a 2nd chance to sort this out, and we are going to.
From now on we will not be taking risks. The long line will be on at all times on walks. Most of the time I can just drop it and if she does start circling I quickly run after and stand on it to get her back. It does get annoying having to avoid getting tangled in the long line constantly, but I have got to put her safety before being mildly annoyed! On top of this, I am going to retrain her entire recall. At the moment, she goes by voice and it is nowhere near 100%. If she’s eating, sniffing, rolling… she ignores me. Theres also the problem of my voice, she can tell instantly whether im annoyed or not and its actually usually in the recall she starts circling.
So, I’m going to train her recall to a whistle. Ironically, I actually started this today on our walk before everything went pear shaped! Ive trained whistle before but never properly. I am going to train it making it 100% reliable everytime. At first we will just do the basic whistle, walk back and then feed. Then I’ll build this up to doing a wait and recalling using the whistle. I’ll then wait until there doing something else in the house and recall away with the whistle, building it up slowly. Then go outside and build up distractions slowly out there too. Of course, Indi and Ernie will also learn this skill as there recalls are not 100% either, but Kez is my main focus.
I never ever want a repeat of today. Yes, theres the lesson learnt about having my phone charged but there is also the fact I could have easily come home without her. I am starting to believe everything happens for a reason more and more, especially now. This was the kick up the bum I needed to start training this properly and not take stupid risks like not putting her long line on all the time. We’ve trained her out of it before, obviously not entirely out of it, but to the point where she went a few months without circling. I know where I went wrong and where I need to build our trust, and now I need to do that. I am so grateful to the people who helped us, especially the woman who let Kez in her house in order to grab her. I say Indi’s the most difficult dog I’ve ever had but I think Kez has now topped it. But, its from our most difficult dogs we learn the most lessons. We will beat this!
[The video was taken last month, but you can see why I call it circling. Obviously, when were not in open fields she will run straight or just stop a distance away and stare]


















